Category: Self-improvement


The young people today you are addicted to their cell phones can easily be deceive and also have more difficult in make lasting long term relationships. They’re so many men and women that cannot seem to find the ‘one’ they would like to spend their life with.The problem is with the use of the cell phone being their source for communication. The reason is in the lack of eye contact.

People generally have a favorable opinion of someone who is on the same or similar wavelength as them. When trying to win the heart of someone we tend to look for similarities in the other person that are agreeable with our own. We need to read the wavelength of the other person and take appropriate approach. However, texting, emailing, and even phone conversation can be miss leading since you cannot associate the message with the physical behavior. So in essences you cannot fully determine if the other persons wavelengths are compatible with yours.

The element that is missing to interpret the relationship between two people is in eye movement and thoughts. Bingo! We need to observe eye movement to determine if in fact wavelengths are similar and a relationship can develop or not. This key factor is not present in texting, or emailing. There is a possibility in a video chat if the parties are sitting close enough to see eye movement.

Since this article is dealing with the notion of easy deception and why young people who use their cell phones to build relationships can be deceived. The Blinking of Eyes is a window to truth or lies. It is known that there is a relationship between blinking the eyes and lying. Blinking the eyes provides important information about the other person; specifically, it can tell you whether or not the person is telling the truth in response to your question. It is important to carefully observe the way the other person blinks and look for a pattern. This is also effective behavior to use when negotiating a deal. To conclude put the cell phone away and meet the person face to face if you wish to establish a relationship.

Everyone has weaknesses. You need to focus on improving your strengths rather than worrying about weaknesses. Your strength is where the Lord has provided is Might. Defining your strengths and sharpening them is the faster way to grow. It is here where you are in unity with the Lord. It is important to pre-establish your expertise that you can be absolutely greater than your opponent, and that opponent is the forces of evil. Don’t ever show your weakness. You have to assume that everyone around you is your potential enemy. When you display your weakness you open the hedge and let Satan in. “How long will you assault me? Would all of you throw me down this leaning wall, this tottering fence?” (Psalm 62:3 NIV)

Do not show your weaknesses at work, for those may desire to have your job. Not showing or letting them see your weaknesses also means you are seeing through your opponents’ weaknesses. Once you pull a bluff make sure you carry through. There are two cases when you look at your weaknesses. One is when you are aware of your weaknesses and are emotionally ready for them. The other case is when you are not aware of your own weaknesses. The important thing for a leader is to be aware of your own weaknesses and see through your opponent’s weaknesses. Rely on your strength that comes from the Almighty and worry not of your weakness.

As I was beginning to reflect on the gifts and nature of the Holy Spirit this came to my mind through feeling and hearing the Spirit is that these emotions seem to get ignored when discussing the Holy Spirit, perhaps because they are not directly mentioned as the others. Since the Holy Spirit is also a part of both God and Jesus. The revelation came to me made me cry, not just tears but the type of crying that overtakes your whole being to the point of uncontrollable crying. It was the Holy Spirit crying in me and like two very close friends we were crying together over a loss of a loved one. We were crying with a parent, wife, or girlfriend who lost their son, husband or boyfriend in combat. We also cried over the loved ones who died due to a violent death. I knew in an instance how people often blame God, but they never realize just how much it hurts God to see his children murdered or dying in such violence.  As Jesus approached Jerusalem and saw the city, He wept over it. (Luke 19:41) When Jesus saw her weeping, and the Jews who had come with her also weeping, He was deeply moved in spirit and troubled. (John 11:33) The Lord also mourned over the loss. Is your spirit moved to sympathy for those suffering? “I needed clothes and you clothed me, I was sick and you looked after me, I was in prison and you came to visit me” (Matthew 25:36 NIV)

Then the emotion changed to wrath we often hear of the words of love, grace, and comfort from the Holy Spirit, but the Holy Spirit is a part of God the Father as well.  The emotion of wrath and anger was upon me. His anger was for many reasons. The verse of Matthew 25:40 and 45 came to me. “What you have done to the least of my brothers you have done to me. Also what you have not done to the least of my brother you have done to me.”  God was angry at the way we treat each other and He was increasingly angry with lukewarm Christians who stand back and do nothing when they see or hear injustice, crimes, and immoral behavior. 80% of all abortions are done by women who claim to be Christians. More than 52% of Christians vote and support those who support abortions. How many Christians step in and stop a fight or prevent a crime.

Holy Spirit spoke where is my strength, courage, and steadfastness among Christians who claim Jesus.  God’s eternal purposes in Christ is to stand against the enemy of righteousness, not to run like cowards. Christians have become soft namby-pamby individuals. Do we actually believe that this type of characteristic free us? “Therefore, there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus,” (Romans 8:1 NIV) No so! “For it had been better for them not to have known the way of righteousness than after they have known it, to turn from the holy commandment delivered unto them.” (2 Peter 2:21 KJV) In order words, you are worse off than before you knew Christ.

Here is how Jesus reacted when he saw injustice. “Jesus entered the temple courts and drove out all who were buying and selling there. He overturned the tables of the money-changers and the benches of those selling doves.” (Matthew 21:12 NIV) Today many use the idea of love and kindness as the cowards way out of defending the faith. Yes, we are to pray for our enemy and turn our cheek to a minor offense but that is no excuse to not step in and stop injustice. If you permit it to happen you assist in the action and therefore you have done it to Jesus. You turned your back on Christ and in doing so you become as Judas Iscariot the betrayer.

The Spirit revealed that God’s personal presence in Christ is to be strong and brave for God is Almighty. The Holy Spirit revealed that we need to be encouraged and mighty and ready to do battle against the forces of evil and to protect the old, young and innocent. We are to be wearing the armor of God and to be ready to defend His Kingdom. The spirit revealed that we receive from Him, the Holy Spirit, the strength to serve the Kingdom as brave and mighty soldiers of God. Jesus showed us how to be a mighty warrior in the passions of Christ as he was wiped and crucified we never read he said ouch or cried out to stop the torture.  Finally, the Lord revealed pray for your enemies but we are not to stand by and do nothing that permits evil to continue. We are to be strong in the Almighty power of the Holy Spirit.  “Because of the increase of wickedness, the love of most will grow cold, but the one who stands firm to the end will be saved.” (Matthew 24:12-13 NIV) That is an indirect order from the King of kings. Courage is also a gift of the Spirit.

The final destination for the majority of human beings.

Various theologians have made their professional opinion of who the so called Anti-Christ is or will be and who is the Harlot but they are blinded by there dislike for the Roman Catholic Church that they fail to see the truth. A Messiah can only come from one group of people and that nation is the Harlot.

A month ago I completed my commentary on the Book of Revelation. I was told to write it by the Lord and I was told I would also be aided in the writing.  It took nearly 2 years to  complete. I prayed, meditated and researched each chapter and verse. The commentary is not based on any particular church doctrine. As an elementary teacher and also a college level adjunct professor I have taught writing.  I was guided to examine the book from a literary position by examining the material as an autobiography of two major characters God and His creation. I am now offering this guided work in a pdf file free of charge. If you wish to read the commentary you can get a copy by requesting it in writing to me at docspeaksshow@gmail.com

You also have my permission to share the file with family and friends. You will discover that a good deal of what is presently taught is incorrect. Thank you for your continued support and God Bless.

Today’s Christians at best are nothing but weekend warriors!

Mark Taylor a retired fireman on April 28, 2011 received a message from God stating that God had anointed Donald Trump to be the next president of the USA. God also included what His Well was that His Anointed president would accomplish. Much of what God revealed to Mark Taylor as come to pass. Listen, share with others, and pray. God wants us to pray, and return to him.

Hope is the feeling of expectation and desire for a certain thing to happen and if that expectation is negative we fail or give up. Our hope needs to be based on positive out comes. Yet, the media has chosen to feed us images of the terrible outcomes. We need to focus on the positive events around us. Listen to the importance of real Hope.

If you really want a good health than you need to look into your immune system to see what is really going on and what your body needs. Behavior, and learning are also affects of poor health but never questioned. On this show Regina and Doc will be discussing what is the first thing you need to do for good health and your doctor is more than likely not telling you. So tune in and get the facts that eating right is still not enough. For more information contact Doc at docspeaksshow@gmail.com